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kaitlyn322

Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:36 PM by kaitlyn322
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so i LOVE to show off my belly by wearing form fitting shirts, and i don't like wearing shirts that cover it up. well today i was at big y, and this lady came up to me and started going off about how i should be ashamed about how i look, and i shouldn't leave the house looking like i do, and if i do need to leave i should wear big clothes so it's hard to tell if i'm pregnant or not. i didn't even know what to say, i just walked away in total shock. i could not believe this crazy lady!

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this is the shirt i was wearing.

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trish33990

by trish33990 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:38 PM

you dont like wearing shirts that cover your belly? personally i dont think any mother should be showing off her belly whether she is pregnant or not. unless your at the beach or pool. i wear form fitting clothes that 'show off' my belly... but nothing that actually shows my belly, i think its a bit trashy/ tacky...but thats jmo

seniortmb07

by seniortmb07 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:40 PM

I show mine off too girl. I mean no skin, but I want everyone to know I'm prego. Even pregnant I get people staring at me like I'm famous, but I haven't experienced anyone saying I should cover up, but most people still don't believe I'm pregnant.

I had a 6 pack before I got pregnant, so I tell most women don't hate b/c I was in shape.

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Number1Wifey

by Number1Wifey on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:40 PM

I dont think you should be ashamed! I think you should be proud! I was the same way with my 1st. I LOVED to show off my belly, I got a lot of compliments and Guessing on what the baby was... but no one ever told me that i should be ashamed! That was just down right rude of that lady to say! Pregnant is BEAUTIFUL!!!

kaitlyn322

by kaitlyn322 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:41 PM

i don't wear shirts that actually show my belly, i don't like shirts that are so big that you can't see my belly at all.

that's what i ment.

Quoting trish33990:

you dont like wearing shirts that cover your belly? personally i dont think any mother should be showing off her belly whether she is pregnant or not. unless your at the beach or pool. i wear form fitting clothes that 'show off' my belly... but nothing that actually shows my belly, i think its a bit trashy/ tacky...but thats jmo


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Abby1108

by Abby1108 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:42 PM

I personally don't like having my belly seen.  I will wear shirts that people can see i'm pregnant (kindof hard not to tell now lol) but i don't show off my belly.  It's ur choice though.  They aren't the one's dressing u and u certainally r not a little girl anymore and need someone to tell u how to dress.  Some people may not like it but it's not up to them it's up to u!  Do what u want to do.  Obviously ur proud of what u got so why not show it off?!  Don't let these people tell u what to do!

kaitlyn322

by kaitlyn322 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:43 PM

i never show skin, and i love my belly, and the way it looks. i think it looks perfect, but apparently this lady didnt think so.

Quoting seniortmb07:

I show mine off too girl. I mean no skin, but I want everyone to know I'm prego. Even pregnant I get people staring at me like I'm famous, but I haven't experienced anyone saying I should cover up, but most people still don't believe I'm pregnant.

I had a 6 pack before I got pregnant, so I tell most women don't hate b/c I was in shape.


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Heater858

by Heater858 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:44 PM

How old was that lady? I always wore fitted shirts when I was prego with my dd, and I dont do it so much now b/c I am in that stage where I just look fat. Once I pop, I will be wearing my form fitting shirts again.

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trish33990

by trish33990 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:45 PM

oh ok...lol.. i thought you were saying you wear like half shirts or something like that... to where your belly button and everything is out there...haha... the thought of it is kinda funny..

Quoting kaitlyn322:

i don't wear shirts that actually show my belly, i don't like shirts that are so big that you can't see my belly at all.

that's what i ment.

Quoting trish33990:

you dont like wearing shirts that cover your belly? personally i dont think any mother should be showing off her belly whether she is pregnant or not. unless your at the beach or pool. i wear form fitting clothes that 'show off' my belly... but nothing that actually shows my belly, i think its a bit trashy/ tacky...but thats jmo

 


chrissiex3

by chrissiex3 on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:45 PM

Don't feel bad I am still squeezing into my regular shirts.  Every time I put on a maternity shirt I feel like a house.  i will squeeze until I can't squeeze any more :)

 

jazzyjae

by jazzyjae on Oct. 4, 2008 at 7:45 PM

I think pregnant bellies are beautiful. you just do you girl. even if you did show a little of your belly, who is anyone to judge? If you was out in public and wanted their opinion, I'm sure you'd ask them for it.

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