Divorce is a trying time, and loneliness can easily creep into your life. Your friends may not be around as you hoped and the emotional toll can make you yearn to want someone to be with. On top of it, we all want to feel attractive and wanted. But is dating during your divorce a wise idea? The truth is dating too soon can be detrimental to a smooth divorce.
According to Michael Aurit, a professional divorce mediator, it might not be a good idea to get back out there too soon. “Divorce is a personal and intimate decision," he told Mom.com. "Being true to yourself may be your most trusted guide through this often complicated decision. A divorce is a loss that triggers a grieving process. Dating may be more natural and successful if you allow time to process and heal, until you feel ready to accept new people into your life.”
Here are six reasons to hold off on dating during divorce:
Dating can affect your case
Being emotionally ready
5. A rebound relationship may not be a good choice
Are you dating someone because you really feel that person is "the one" or is this a rebound because you are scared and lonely? There is nothing wrong with wanting to get out, have some fun, and feel attractive. Just remember that you might not be making the best choices and you may find yourself in a complicated situation that doesn’t really fulfill you.
6. You may not be emotionally ready
Giving yourself time to heal will make sure you don’t make a mistake that results in another bad breakup. It takes time to process why your marriage failed and to do the necessary inner work to be healthier and happier. The goal is to find joy without bringing another man into your life so that you can find someone to complement who you are, not take the responsibility of making you happy.
To hear experienced insight from divorce attorney Jonna Spilbor on dating during dicvorce, check out this episode of Divorce Tips:
