Mom 101
Newborns Eat More Often Than You Think
Bottle-fed babies need small, frequent feedings, and breast-fed babies need to eat even more often. Let go of measurements and timing, and let baby take the lead.
"Don't get attached to the clock," says Bernard. Watch baby instead. Learn the early signs of hunger, like rooting and sucking fingers, and offer before crying starts.
You Also Need to Eat More Than You Think
If you're breast-feeding, you need an extra 500 calories a day. And even if you're bottle-feeding, your body needs nutrition to recover from pregnancy. But when you're busy taking care of baby, it's easy to forget about yourself—and suddenly realize at 4 p.m. that you haven't had a bite all day.
Stock up on healthy snacks you can eat with one hand, and keep water bottles everywhere.
Your Postpartum Body Is Still Changing
You expected the stretch marks, but you might not expect your skin to break out like a teenager's. "Surging hormone levels increase oil gland production," explains Wider.
Another common problem is skin tags—small flaps of skin that can appear on your chest, neck or thighs. You'll also lose hair. And just like your belly, which will take at least nine months to get back to normal, your swollen feet may never get back to their pre-pregnancy size.
Baby Doesn't Need a Lot of Clothes
Overheating is dangerous for newborns, so don't wrap baby in lots of layers. He only needs one more layer than you're wearing. So if you're wearing a long-sleeve shirt, then a pajama gown and a swaddle blanket is plenty for baby.
And although hats are great for extra warmth, take them off when you go to bed. "I see hats move a lot while babies are sleeping," says Bernard. "If you're both asleep, don't use a hat."
'New Mommy Issues' Could Be Something More
Almost 10 percent of women suffer from postpartum thyroiditis, a temporary thyroid problem that often occurs postpartum. Others suffer from anemia. But the symptoms—feeling exhausted, having dizzy spells, difficulty losing weight, racing heart and constipation—can all be normal postpartum issues.
How to tell the difference?
"Ask your doctor to test your thyroid and your iron," says Wider. Both of these conditions "are very treatable."
Diaper Rash Comes From More Than Diapers
Your newborn's skin is incredibly sensitive and prone to irritation. Not changing often enough is usually the culprit, but sometimes it's the wipes or the type of diaper. Try rinsing wipes off with warm water before you wipe baby, or use wet cotton balls or paper towels. And if the rash doesn't improve with frequent changes, good ointment and regular airing of the skin, try a different brand of diaper.
