What to Know
In the weeks since popular TikToker and labor and delivery nurse Jen Hamilton announced she and husband Brian Hamilton have split, more and more details keep coming out that make us feel even worse for everything she has been through. After revealing that Brian was living a “double life,” Jen opened up about her conversation with his alleged affair partner — the same one who happens to be 20 years her senior — in a new video.
Jen first revealed that her ex was keeping a huge secret from her.
@_jen_hamilton_ Nipples in the wind. #nosecretsclub ♬ original sound – Jen Hamilton
Though Jen has hinted along the way that infidelity played a part in the end of her marriage, she’s mostly kept the specifics about her split with Brian private. But that all changed on Sunday, when Jen took to Instagram to share a video getting painfully explicit about what led to her decision to leave.
“I’m done being people’s PR manager,” Jen said in the video. “My kids know, everybody in my orbit knows, so I’m just going to give you the nitty gritty details so it can give you enough information to be like, ‘Okay I get it.'”
She went on to add, “All you need to know is this person had a double life.”
Now that she knows the truth, Jen said that what she’s found out has “caused me to deal with this as a death,” because what she knows now means that “all the memories, all the tender moments… poof.”
The secret in question? He was in a full on relationship with another woman.
She also shared a “direct quote” from his alleged affair partner.
All this time, Jen has been the only one working in their family for a while because she wanted to “take stress” off of Brian, only for her to find out that he’s been using all that spare time for his other relationship.
And not only that, but the other woman knew about Jen, too.
“A direct quote that I got was, ‘I knew about you. He talked about you all the time, but I didn’t know you had so many followers,’” she said.
After claiming that the woman was “old enough to know better,” she added in a comment on her own post, “And by old enough to know better, I mean 21 years older than me. I’m 35. I do not care to keep people’s secrets anymore.”
Well, there we have it — and unfortunately, it really does seem like Jen discovered her husband isn’t at all the person she thought she was married to.
Later, Jen clarified what happened even further.
In a video Jen shared on Monday, she confirmed, “Yes, he had a double life with a woman who was 56 years old. Yes, I should have left him way earlier. Giving myself grace.”
This has to be a tough pill to swallow, but good for Jen for getting out and expecting better for herself.
And seriously, who doesn’t know that Jen Hamilton has a lot of followers?
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