Every year if feels like I’m doing too much for the holidays — and then the next year rolls around and it seems like I’m doing even more than I did the previous year. I’m tired before Thanksgiving weekend is even over and December looms with gift buying and wrapping, decorating and hosting, traveling and traditions. Instead of enjoying the holiday season, I’m looking forward to January and a chance to breathe.
I finally said “enough” a couple of years ago
Wouldn't it maybe make you happier to order those gifts online now and be done with your shopping?
Holiday traditions shouldn't leave you feeling trapped into doing things you don't enjoy or that will sap your your energy and holiday spirit. Many of us—myself included— automatically say "yes" to everything at this time of the year in order not to sound Grinchy and, let’s face it, because we don’t want to let anyone down.
But the one we’re really letting down is ourselves
By asking yourself, “Will this make me happy?” you are consciously choosing to change your own narrative for the holiday season. And putting your own self-care front and center will make for a brighter and happier holiday for all.
