How To Have a Playdate During a Quarantine

By now, most of us grasp the gravity of the pandemic and understand social distancing is crucial to slow the spread of the coronavirus. Many schools have closed for the rest of the school year and are devising solutions using technology to provide continuity of education for all students, as well as additional support for special needs students. However, parents — in looking for things to do with kids at home — may be tempted to arrange playdates at their houses.

Please don’t.

“Social distancing is important to protect yourself from getting the virus and protect yourself from spreading it to others,” pediatrician Dr. Steph Lee explained to Mom.com. “The latest data suggest up to 25% of people can be infected with the new coronavirus, but lucky enough not to show symptoms,” she clarified. “However, they can still spread the virus to others.”

How families are using technology and kids chat apps for playdates

Ideas for what to do on playdates during quarantine

While some children are content with just chatting or having friends in the background, other kids may need more. “Create structure in the home — get out of pajamas and still get dressed. This helps you and your kids feel mentally active and ready to take on the day,” advised spokesperson for the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), Dr. Lee. “Schedule activities that keep everyone engaged like arts and crafts, puzzles, or even board games.”

“Our kids are doing FaceTime with cousins and friends as often as possible. Sometimes they draw together and other times they have played American Girl dolls together,” shared Bernard.

Diana Lee told us her kids use Zoom for playdates and birthday chats. “They also use the whiteboard and chat features to draw each other pics and send emojis.”

“Each Friday on Marco Polo, my kids and my best friend’s kids present something they are interested in and/or researched that week,” suggested Darcy Zalewski. “They reply with questions and answers.”

Lastly, don’t forget about physical activity! Having dance parties over video or taking exercise classes can be a fun and healthy way to have a playdate during quarantine, too.