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The Best Gifts for Exhausted Moms
The holidays are coming, and while we firmly believe that all parents deserve a gift, moms might deserve just a little something extra special.
I know that personally, I’ve been feeling more exhausted than normal lately, even for a mom of five. Call it perimenopause, call it the world around us, or call it just getting older in general, but there’s just a general feeling of total overwhelm that is hard to shake.
In lieu of running away to an all-inclusive spa resort for a week and doing nothing but relaxing, there are a few gifts for moms that can help them reset and recharge.
For instance, an at-home massage chair sounds like a full-body rejuvenating experience, while a heated neck massager brings the tension release down to a more budget-friendly level.
Moms chasing the high of our millennial tanner days will appreciate a quick and stainless self-tanner, and anyone looking to hibernate for their recharge session will love the coziest of cozy blankets and sweatsuits.
A Sweat Suit to Live In Forever
Come winter, there is nothing I want more than to live permanently in the comfiest, coziest set of sweatpants and hoodies.
This brand name is literally called ‘Comfrt,’ which should be the first clue that they’re built for comfort. But if that’s not enough, the hoodies are also slightly weighted, which the company explains helps produce a calming and anti-anxiety effect.
The Coziest of Cozy Blankets
Recommended by CafeMom’s Vice-President of Content, these cozy and weighted blankets provide both warmth and comfort for a long winter’s night. The lightly weighted fabric can induce calm and promote a good night’s sleep, which is always the ultimate reset for busy and exhausted moms.
The blankets come in three sizes (and if you’re on a budget, you’ll want to choose the smaller size), as well as multiple colors.
An At-Home Massage (With No Strings Attached)
I bought this very neck massager a few years ago, and I’m not exaggerating when I say it’s one of my favorite purchases ever.
I use my neck massager weekly, sometimes to the point that my husband even complains that he’s been replaced by a machine, but hey, we all know that sometimes, that’s the price that must be paid.
The massager is ideal for releasing general tense neck and shoulders, and it’s also my go-to relief for headaches and migraines. Works like a charm every time! I love that it’s heated and adjustable, and can be used in other parts of the body, like your lower back, for instance.
A Pro-Collagen Peptide Moisturizer
$49
from
Paula's Choice
The older I get, the more desperately my skin cries out for moisturizing. As I approach 40, I am told my skin is losing more collagen and elasticity (yay!), so the fact that this moisturizer contains both is a major, major plus.
The pro-collagen peptide moisturizer can be worn on its own or under makeup and promises a “cushiony” and non-greasy feel.
A Truly Refreshing Face Mask
I feel like face masks are a bit of a “go-to” idea to pamper moms, but so many of them are honestly useless and may even irritate skin.
This sheet mask, however, never fails to make me feel like an entirely new woman. I promise it is actually hydrating and refreshing, which I attribute to the 2% hyaluronic acid it contains.
And at under $2, it really can’t be beat as a quick, easy, and go-to gift for any mom.
A Shimmering, Sparkly Stanley
Why do I feel like a sparkly, shimmery Stanley will fix every aspect of my life?
And even if it doesn’t, let’s be honest: hydration can go a long way in helping to bring an exhausted mom back to life.
Laser Hair Removal at Home
Price may vary
$34
from
As someone who has (foolishly) paid for professional laser hair removal in the past, I am the perfect person to tell you that it is very expensive. Even after several office visits with my dermatologist, my stubborn chin hairs were still sprouting up every month.
So when I finally realized that I could buy an at-home laser hair removal that I could use on my entire body for about the cost of 2 in-office sessions, I knew it was a no-brainer. I use mine weekly, and I’m well on my way to becoming a hairless mole.
Also, Epilaser is a true professional in the field, as they have two targeted lasers, one for individuals with light-toned skin and one for dark-toned skin.
A Moisturizing Shower Experience
I’m just going to say it: I’m a mom who dreads showering. Not because I have any real aversion to being clean, of course, but because of the immense time and effort it takes. And that’s all before I get out of the shower.
After the shower, there’s even more work: the all-over lotioning of the body, the hair drying, and styling — it’s just so much work.
Recently, I’ve become a bit obsessed with shower moisturizer, because it feels like it saves me one massive step in the showering process. I’ve seen influencers raving about the stuff, but apparently, you simply apply it in the shower, leave it on, and you step out of the shower totally moisturized. The steam and moisture from the shower can even help lock in moisture even more than if you applied post-water.
A Red Light Mask That Actually Works
Listen, I don’t love the price on this one either. But I am someone who has bought the cheap Amazon versions of a red light mask, and I can tell you, they’re not worth it.
My sister makes her living as a lifestyle influencer, so I trust her recommendations, and she swears this higher-priced version is the real deal. It’s especially rejuvenating in the winter when you’re dying for a little warmth and sunshine.
A Lip Stain That Doesn't Require Reapplication
$29
from
Kulfi Beauty
Also influencer-sister recommended, this lip stain helps exhausted moms (did I mention she’s about to have two kids under two?) rock some lip color without the need for reapplying. It’s an easy way to have all-day wear, if that’s your thing.
A Full-Body Tanning, Sans the UV Damage
I am of the generation that tanned professionally (that’s a joke, but sadly, I did do a lot of time in the tanning booths), so I will remember the rush of golden-bronzed skin.
That poor skin is already showing many signs of damage, so you won’t catch me going in the sun, artificial or otherwise, anytime soon, but I do miss that feeling of joy only a tan can bring. And that’s where a little bottle tan comes in.
Again, my sister swears this is the best self-tanner to use, and it’s especially ideal for busy moms because it won’t stain and can be washed off for results in as little as 1 hour.
A Massage Chair That No One Else Can Sit In
$672
from
Home Depot
I am fully convinced that an hour in this bad boy would fully heal me.
A Blanket for Reading to Shut Off Their Brains
Reading is my very favorite way to shut my brain off at the end of the day, but during the winter, I really do find myself longing for the warmth of a Snuggie so I can keep my arms covered and read in bed.
I’ve resisted for years, but this year, I resist no more. Bring on the warmth and time hiding away in my room from my family!
