When I was younger, my mom saw her friend’s boyfriend walking with another woman in the airport. She came home and told us of her discovery, and when I asked her if she was going to share this information with her friend, she sadly told me she was not. She said there was a good chance that she already knew, and if she wasn’t ready to hear this information, it could hurt their friendship while her friend continued to stay with her cheating spouse.
But all of this happened back in the '90s, before the advent of social media and the potential for virality. It was easier to get away with things back then. These days, instead of just telling your friend, you can share the whole salacious story on the internet. That’s just what happened when one woman saw her friend’s husband cuddling up to a pregnant woman in the hospital.
Her friend's husband was very touchy-feely with the pregnant woman.
The woman who witnessed the scandalous scene goes by Chacdvale on TikTok. She was visiting a patient at the hospital when she looked into a room and saw her friend’s husband.
The husband and the TikToker looked at each other. He acknowledged her with a nod but didn’t embrace her as he normally does. She noticed that her friend’s husband was handsy with the pregnant woman. That would have been enough, but when she went to confront him, the picture became even clearer.
The TikToker confronted her friend's husband.
She walked up to the husband and said, “How is [his wife’s name]?” The husband repeated the name as if it were entirely unfamiliar. He responded, “Who?” The woman asked, "Your wife." The husband looked her dead in the face and said, “I am not married.”
Obviously, he was lying. What made the lie even more egregious was the fact that Chacdvale attended their wedding. She had been over the couple’s house, visiting both him and his wife after all of them had been in church together, just a few days before.
The TikToker called her friend and told her to get there fast.
The man’s denial was a clear indicator that he must be the father of the pregnant woman’s child. Not wasting any time, the TikToker called her friend and asked her how far she was from the hospital. When her friend said that she was about 30 minutes away, she told her to come.
She didn’t mention what she’d seen, just that she needed to get there. At the end of the video, Chac watches as the man leaves. No word on whether her friend arrived in time to confront him or not.
Chac explained that her friend does everything for this man.
In another video describing the situation, she shared that sometimes women don’t know what they’re getting themselves into. She said that her friend met her husband when she went on vacation in her island country of Jamaica. She and her future husband grew up in the same neighborhood.
She said that when she married him, he had nothing. “She picked him up from the slum,” Chac explained. She helped him with his immigration paperwork. She worked when he couldn’t. “And this is how he repays her,” she said. “Not even having an affair but getting her pregnant.”
The husband is now threatening legal action.
The TikToker said the husband and her friend have been married for eight years, have two children together, and have suffered two miscarriages in the time they’ve been together. In subsequent videos, Chac also wanted to make it clear that she is not blaming the pregnant woman. “She had no idea he was married,” she explained.
As far as any update on what happened, Chac told her YouTube channel that she would have to hold off on all of that because her friend’s husband has threatened her with legal action. While over a million people have watched Chac’s tale, there are those who believe she made the entire thing up.
Chac says she can’t change people’s minds. But she did say she’ll be there for her friend and she won’t allow people on the internet to make her feel bad for doing what she felt was right. “I have no remorse whatsoever for speaking up,” she said.
