Now that I'm a dad and the primary caregiver of our children, I’m keenly aware of other dads. I see them at the grocery store with their babies, walking the kids in strollers, and playing with them at the park or on playdates.
The role of dads today is not only more diverse but expanded
There are benefits for dads, too
By being more involved in the day-to-day care of the family, dads establish deeper and richer bonds with their children. They also learn just how much work it is taking care of the kids, which ultimately helps them appreciate the work moms have done for decades.
The involvement of dads starts early, with increased participation with the pregnancy and the birth of the child. They attend doctor appointments, participate in the delivery, and increasingly are helping with nighttime feedings and diaper changes.
The expanded roles of dads may take many different forms, depending on the family
It could be coming home from work to spend time with the kids, helping with the schoolwork or extracurricular activities, dropping off and picking up the kids from school, or staying home as the primary caregiver.
From a personal standpoint, I have to say that seeing dads as primary caregivers gives me a sense of pride and makes me happy.
I think shedding the old, dated conventions of dad’s role for the more well-rounded version is a very good thing. Moms have shouldered way too much of the burden of childcare for way too long.
There is still progress to be made, but things have certainly come a long way, and dads are stepping up their game, which is a great thing for moms, dads, and kids.
