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If a couple can get through the first year of parenting an infant for the first time, they can get through almost anything together. When a woman on TikTok by the name of Renaee shared a video where her husband says he is disgusted by her because of the way she smells while breastfeeding their son, it shows a whole other side of what that first year or two is like for some couples.
The account is full of other videos that depict the husband in a poor light, from joining a dating app to refusing to leave their shared home. In the comments under one of the videos, someone claimed that the issues between the couple aren’t legit.
Whatever the case may be, tons of other users came to the defense of the breastfeeding mom and they got their internet pitchforks ready to take out the husband.
Figuratively, of course.
@renaee.xo_ Excuse me, I smell like what??? #cheater #tinder #husbandwife #cheaterbuster #husband ♬ original sound – renaee.xo_
Don’t worry, other women came for the “rotten milk” husband in the comments.
In Renaee’s video, her husband says that she smells like “rotten milk and cheese 24/7.” Although she points out that she feeds their son and that she leaks milk easily, his responses are that she should shower more, change her clothes more, and generally have better hygiene.
It doesn’t just border on cruel. It is something that no breastfeeding mother needs to hear from anyone, let alone her partner.
“You’re disgusting,” her husband says in the video.
“Ever since you started doing this breastfeeding journey thing that you like to talk about, you don’t even take care of yourself anymore, because you walk by, and it’s like smelling some sort of, like, Italian cheese factory. It’s disgusting.”
He also tells her that she doesn’t know how she can live with herself “smelling like that.” It’s why, he adds, he has to “go find other women who don’t smell.”
Again, if this is satire or not legitimate in some way, it may still be a hard conversation that other couples have dealt with. And the women and moms in the comments came ready with their own quips for the husband.
“Is this a joke because no man of mine would get to finish talking,” one woman commented.
Others pointed to the fact that the husband is a gamer as evidence of his behavior toward her. Naturally, another woman wrote, “Him being a gamer and having toys behind him tells me everything I need to know.”
Some were just plain shocked that a husband and father would speak this way to the mother of his literal child.
I mean, same, sis.
“This is a joke right? RIGHT!?!?” Someone commented under the TikTok. “No man would ever say this to the woman who is the mother of his baby.”
Clearly, judging by the cheating allegations that are also in the TikTok, this particular husband and new dad isn’t too worried about how he speaks to the mother of his baby.
After a couple of users commented with the same meme of a stick figure holding a cinder block, other women replied to offer their services in helping to arrange the hypothetical beating of the husband.
Totally fictional, of course.
