As your eighth month of pregnancy begins, you are probably experiencing a mixture of excitement and nervousness every time you look at the calendar. That totally makes sense—you're almost a mom! There's a lot to think about and do over the next few weeks to prepare for your baby's arrival, but try your best to stay relaxed. Another good idea? Take a childbirth class this month to give yourself a realistic expectation of what to expect during labor and delivery, especially if this is your first baby. A better understanding of what happens during childbirth can help keep you calm and focused as the big day draws near!
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Things to Start Thinking About
Your Sex Life: For most women, it's completely safe to have sex throughout pregnancy. Some moms-to-be even feel like pregnancy hormones gives their libidos a lift. However, in your eighth month, sex may not feel as comfortable physically. Talk to your partner about your needs and think about exploring whatever intimate alternatives feel good to you. After all, who said a foot rub can't be sexy?
Breastfeeding: Many moms will tell you—sometimes breastfeeding is harder than labor and delivery itself! Part of making breastfeeding a success is planning and preparation. Get in touch with a lactation consultant at the hospital where you'll deliver to see what breastfeeding resources are available, including classes. Look into attending a local chapter meeting of La Leche League to meet other nursing moms. Trust us, they'll end up being an invaluable source of support!
Your Birth Plan: Hospital birth or home birth? Epidural or drug-free? There's more to think about with childbirth than you expected. And while things often don't end up going according to plan, it never hurts to be prepared. Just keep in mind that anything can happen during delivery, so have an open mind and be flexible.
LOOK AHEAD: Month 9