Finding out you’re pregnant with another child can be very exciting, especially if you’ve been trying to add to your family for some time. You probably can’t wait to tell some close friends and family, or perhaps you’re waiting to tell everyone until you hit the second trimester.
If you have other children, you may be wondering when and how to tell your kids you’re pregnant, and maybe if you should record it. While every child and family situation is different, here are some ideas to consider about when, how, and if there are certain topics to avoid or navigate around carefully.
When to share pregnancy news with your other children
How will your child react?
Of course, the best-laid plans often go awry when children are in the mix, so be prepared for reactions that are not positive or even apathetic! If your kids aren’t happy about the new baby, that’s OK. It’s a big change for them and they will need time to adjust.
“Change can be hard! Don’t get flustered,” added Dr. Beigel. “When they make negative comments, give a small reaction, like ‘oh’ or ‘I hear you.’ You don’t need to convince them.”
