Sexting Examples For When You Want to Dabble In This Form of Foreplay

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We’ve all been there: Clutching your phone, eager to get freaky with someone on the other end but drawing a blank in the sext department. Sure, eggplant emojis are all well and good, but there has to be more? You want to send something hot, something that gets straight to the point, but your mind is drawing a complete blank. Fear not, I’ve put together a little cheat sheet of sexting examples for those times when your libido is running the show and your words have gone bye-bye. Consider this your emergency toolkit for when you’re just too horny to think. Click, copy, paste, and report back! 

1. The Direct and Desperate

Sometimes, honesty is the sexiest policy. If you’re practically vibrating with anticipation, say that! 

• “I’m so incredibly turned on right now, I can barely focus.”
• “My body is practically begging for you.”
• “All I can think about is your hands/mouth/body on me.”
• “I’m so wet/hard for you, it’s driving me crazy.”
• “I need you. Like, right now.”

2. The Playful Tease

A little mystery and suggestion can go a long way if a slow burn is more your style. 

• “Working from home, wearing nothing but a smile and thinking of you.”
• “Just got out of the shower… wish you were here to help me get dirty again.”
• “I have a secret I want to tell you, but only if you promise to make me moan.”
• “I’m imagining all the things we could be doing instead of staring at our phones.”
• “My bed feels awfully empty without you in it.”

3. The Bold Invitation

When you’re ready to make your intentions crystal clear and invite them into your fantasy.

• “Tell me what you’d do to me if you were here.”
• “I want your mouth all over me.”
• “I’m fantasizing about you pressing me against the wall.”
• “Let’s just say, I’m ready to make some bad decisions with you.”
• “My legs are shaking just thinking about what we could do.”

4. The Sensory Experience

If your sexting partner is a visual person, try to engage their senses by describing what you’re feeling or wanting to feel.

• “I can almost feel your breath on my neck.”
• “My skin is tingling just thinking about your touch.”
• “I’m craving the taste of you.”
• “I want to hear you moan my name.”
• “The thought of your body against mine is making me dizzy.”

5. The "What If" Scenario

Create a shared fantasy that puts them right in the thick of your dirty little mind.

• “What if I showed up at your door right now, wearing nothing but my Crocs?”
• “Imagine me on my knees for you.”
• “Picture us tangled up in the sheets, not stopping until dawn.”
• “If you were here, I’d have my tongue tracing every inch of your body.”
• “Let’s just say, my imagination is running wild, and you’re the star of the show.”

There you have it! A little inspiration to get those sexy texts flowing when your mind is a blissful, horny blank. Go forth and get your flirty little freak on, lovely ones.