Valentine’s Day is coming soon and, unfortunately, it seems like most couples will be celebrating at home this year — but that doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Grab a whimsically affectionate card, some candy, and add romance. Just because kids, work, school, and everything is virtual these days doesn’t mean lovers should forget about the romance. It’s the little things that mean the most these days. It just means everyone needs to get a little more creative.
Don’t skip date night because the world is not as it once was. Babies do change everything but change just means different, not bad. A shift in perspective and expectation can bring new and exciting ways to celebrate. Below are 16 Valentine’s Day ideas at home (yes, even with the kids around).
Breakfast of Champions
Morning is where it’s at. A breakfast heavy on the aphrodisiacs served in bed is one of the most romantic ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day. There’s not a better way to start the day. Bonus points if sleeping in preceded this morning delight.
Sexy Scavenger Hunt
Scavenger hunts are not just for kids. Hide all the makings of a great Valentine’s Day date around the house and let him use a sexy treasure map to find it all. Start with some chocolate-covered strawberries, move on to Champagne, couple’s toys, massage oil and let it end in the bedroom where the big treasure, a scantily clad partner, will be found waiting. This one may have to wait until the kids are napping or in bed, though.
Spa Party of Two
Couples' massages and spa treatments are not safe options right now, but at-home ones are and can be super sexy. Start by taking a bubble bath together while sipping Champagne and then move on to giving each other full-body massages. Things will get dirty fast, so enjoy that bubble bath.
Slow Dancing in the Dark
Make a playlist of slow dancing favorites and slow dance. The great thing is everyone can slow dance and it puts both parties directly into an embrace. Let the music do its thing. Want to level up? Send the playlist as a memento.
Order In
Nobody wants to cook on Valentine’s Day after cooking all day, everyday for almost a year. It’s all about romance and the smell of food on clothes is not sexy. Order food and get it delivered. Splurge, get whatever those hearts want and enjoy the relaxation and clean kitchen.
Netflix & Chill
Cuddle up and watch a movie together. Go for something romantic or sexy, whatever floats that love boat tonight. The most important part of this plan? Both parties need to turn off their phones.
Surprise Backyard Picnic Under the Stars
Those kids have to go to sleep sometime. When they do, have a romantic picnic (or midnight snack) ready to go as soon as they do and head out under the stars. Enjoy some peace and quiet and cuddles.
Get Straight to the Point
Short on time? As soon as the kids fall asleep, throw on a nightie, a little baby oil, play some sexy music and shake what your mama gave you. It won’t take long to achieve maximum romance.
Sexy Games for Two
Who says game night has to be boring? Not sure how sexy a fully clothed round of Monopoly is, but naked Twister or strip poker can get a lady pregnant.
Get Swept Away
Jet setting to Paris on a whim is not likely to happen this year, but who says couples can’t experience new places? Transform the home into a sexy French restaurant, watch a French film, practice those French accents, and end the night with an oh la la French kiss. Sound cheesy? Try it. They'll like it, trust us.
Sweet Nothings in the Kitchen
Maybe it sounds like a chore but baking definitely hits different when it’s something sexy and its hand-fed (or fed off a body) to a significant other. Imagine the possibilities.
Truth or Dare
Feeling a little naughty? Well, the only limits on truth or dare are self-imposed. Give up control and don’t ask anything too serious.
Stay Up Late
Remember staying up all night on the phone talking about everything and nothing? Go back to the good ol' days and simply put devices away and connect all night long.
Take a Trip Back in the Time Machine
Lots may have changed since the day when these two lovebirds met, but why not pay homage to those butterflies first felt. Have a romantic night themed to match the year of the big meet — dress the part, listen to the music, and do all the things.
Drinks & Charcuterie After the Kids Go to Bed
Real cocktails and some adults-only charcuterie is perfect for getting those romantic notions stirred up. Want to kick it up a notch? Do it in lingerie or … not much else.
Role Play
Switch things up. It’s great to be with a a loved one but exciting to be with someone new. A little role play goes a long way.
