This Candle Lets Husbands Know Their Wives Are Ready to ‘Get It On’

When it comes to doing the deed as a married couple with kids, the stars truly have to align. You both obviously have to be ready to go and able to be physically and mentally present. For some of us in those early parenting years, the whimsy of romance is dead and buried in the backyard, and we need to be very clear as to when we are able to carve out that special alone time. 

Taking the spontaneity out of sex can be a real buzzkill though. Pencling your partner in isn't exactly sexy. One way to communicate you're ready to go? A candle.

Seriously, this nifty little idea from Etsy store LunarLandings will help you both score big time this holiday season.

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The label reads: 

"When this candle is lit, I want you to come here and give me that 'dad bod.'"

Yes, for real.

This completely personalized candle can really have any message you want on it.

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But using it as a signal for sexy time? It's kind of genius.

The hand-poured soy candle can come in an array of scents, making it extra alluring to your partner. You can get it in three different sizes, though, we say spring for the big one at 16 ounces for $23.5 if you plan to light that baby up regularly.

Your husband will not only appreciate the clarity, but it'll be really fun for him to race home and see if tonight's a good night.

After all, bringing fun back into the bedroom is an essential part of marriage, and a practice that both partners should get to participate in.

Your husband will never be so happy to receive a candle for Christmas.

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