We say it all the time on CafeMom in different ways: Mamas need their me-time. Sometimes it's alone (OK, most of the time it's alone), but it can also be with their partner (or partners), too. With much of the world spending more time than ever before with their families over the past few years, it's hard to imagine getting any closer than we already have been to our loved ones. But believe us when we say it, intimacy in the bedroom is something there's never too much of in a marriage or partnership.
For past generations, using sex toys in the bedroom carried a stigma. But we're dispelling that notion right now. In addition to open communication, anything that has the opportunity to spice things up during adult time is a good idea. Sex toys are a great way to do that, and there is an array of them out there for whatever kind of sex needs a couple may have. So take some time to browse — and then feel free to thank us later.
We-Vibe Jive Wearable G-Spot Vibe
$119
from
PinkCherry
We-Vibe has been a tried and true couple's sex toy for years and it's very up-to-date when it comes to technology. It is shaped to vibrate on all parts, especially that G-spot area, hands-free. It can be synced to a smartphone and controlled by the other partner, without ever needing to touch the toy.
Eva II Hands-Free Vibrator
Speaking of hands-free, this Dame vibrator can keep the vibrations concentrated on the clit during sex without needing to hold it there and get numb hands. The "wings to nestle under your labia for a secure, comfortable fit. Even in adventurous positions, Eva only needs the help of a single finger to stay secure."
b-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Rimming Butt Plug
Vibrators aren't just for clits. Butt plug vibes during anal sex can increase the pleasure of the experience tenfold. This one comes with a remote control to find the setting that feels just right (and lots of others, too). Bonus: The remote can work up to 30 feet away.
Vibrating C--k Ring
$6.5
from
PinkCherry
We've covered clits and butts, but people with penises can have vibration in their pleasure zones, too. This c–k ring slides onto any sized shaft and creates a living vibrator out of the person who wears it. It can also be handheld for "precision stimulation."
Date Night Set
Why just go for one toy when there's options to have more? That's why we're loving this We-Vibe Date Night set for couples. It comes with a vibrating penis ring and a dual stimulator. That means pleasure for everyone.
Magic Wand
One can't go wrong with a classic, and that's exactly what the Magic Wand is. It can be used to pleasure the partner with a vagina, but it can also take massages to another level. It has "4 x speeds and 4 x patterns operated with ease via the 3-button controls."
Tenga SVR C--k Ring
So, we're not finished talking about c–k rings. We saw this one from Tenga that's incredibly versatile. It can go on penises, vibrators, or strap-on dildos. Or, it can also be slipped over the finger for anal, clit, or penile touch. But what's special about this ring is the extension for extra body part stimulation.
Head Master Double Texture Blow Job Stroker
Slip the blow job stroker over the penis while giving a blow job for extra stimulation, or even just for blow job help with the inner texture. Lots of people snub their nose at hand jobs, but it's a tried and true way to pleasure a partner with a penis.
Novice Plug
For couples looking to dip their toes into anal play or who are just beginners, this butt plug is a great toy to start with. It's average size, safe, and no-frills — simple to use and mess around with. Plus, it vibrates, and "offers 6 vibration levels and 15 vibration patterns for a multitude of erotic combinations."
Together Vibrating Double
For couples who have two clits to satisfy, this Together Vibrating Double toy is just what the doctor would order. According to Babeland, "The Together was designed for dual enjoyment by providing stimulation to both partners' inner and outer erogenous zones simultaneously — while also heightening intimacy by encouraging eye-to-eye contact." Plus, it automatically adjusts the vibration intensity levels to match the other person.
Tickle Me Torquoise Finger Vibe
$15
from
PinkCherry
The Tickle Me Torquoise Finger Vibe is a toy that is simple but can yield big results. Fingers are great, but the vibe can take touch to the next level, pretty much anywhere that's fair game on the body: vaginal, anal, or wherever. And, it's made out of hypoallergenic silicone, so, "the PinkCherry Tickle Me Torquoise Finger Vibe is body safe and perfect for pleasure seekers with sensitive skin."
Pack Joque Black Harness + Fusian Strap-On Dildo
$161
from
Wet for Her
Sex with penetration isn't for everyone, but lots of people enjoy it, and it's possible without having a penis with strap-on toys like this Pack Joque Black Harness. It also comes with a Fusian strap-on dildo to complete the toy. It has five star reviews from Wet for Her.
Rock Her Mini Scissoring Vibrator
$76.5
from
Wet for Her
Not all vibrators are optimized for scissoring or non-penile penetration, but the Rock Her Mini Scissoring Vibrator is. It's a "vibrating clitoral ring with textured g-spot bulb" with an accompanying remote control that has 10 vibrational settings and wireless remote control.
Fin Vibrator for Fingers
Not all finger vibes are made equal, but Dame has one that is pretty great. It's called the "Fin" and is designed for a natural finger grip. With an almost five-star rating on Dame's site, it's clear others would agree. Slip it over the fingers, grasp the vibrating end, and touch away.
Two Fingers Extender
$35
from
Wet for Her
If someone just wants to be penetrated really amazingly and deeply, then this is the sex toy to get. It's a finger extender that does exactly what it says. According to Wet for Her "this ensures you reach the right spot! It’s perfect partner for finger play." It's also "made entirely from medical grade silicone, the Two Finger Extender is super soft to touch and body safe."
Lelo Sona 2
Clitoral stimulation has never felt so good with the Lelo Sona 2, and that's because the toy is a vibrator that also has a suction tip that literally buzzes and pulls the clit area. It can be used for solo play, but couples can also use it to switch things up. Did we mention it's waterproof?
Le Wand Loop Silicone Attachment
The Le Wand Loop Silicone Attachment is perfect for people who have a penis or those who have a partner with a penis to get that extra stimulation without relying on hands — allow the vibration from the wand to do it, while also using it for massage pleasure, the rest of the time. It also features a textured interior to deliver stimulation to the frenulum and the penis.
Liberator Sex Position Wedge
This is a sex "toy" that we consider more of a sex tool. Instead of using pillows to try new positions and prop the hips up when engaging in sexual activities with partners (pillows go flat under the weight of a body), this sex position wedge holds its shape for an array of different positions and keep the fun going for much longer. Available in pink or blue.
RGB Strap-On Harness
$69
from
Pure Romance
Strap-ons aren't a new sex toy on the market — they're one of the original tools to make sex more enjoyable and accessible for people who don't have a penis or a penis of the right size. This Pure Romance strap-on is simple but uber sexy.
Double Fun Vibrating Rabbit Double Penetration Strap-On
Strap-ons aren't just made for people without penises to use. With the Double Fun Vibrating Rabbit Double Penetration Strap-On from Lovehoney, people with penises can have another one to penetrate their partner in two places at once, which sounds like a win for everyone involved. Not only that, but there's a clit stimulator on top, which makes it a trifecta of pleasure.
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