We frequently talk about the magic of the holidays for kids and, let's be honest, a lot of moms work really hard to make that magic happen! In the middle of all the shopping, cooking, baking, gift wrapping, and decorating, it can be all to easy to forget to take some time to connect to the more grown-up side of the holidays. Yep. We're taking about getting tangled up in the tinsel and getting all holly and jolly with someone who isn't Santa Claus (although no shade if that is the holiday fantasy for some folks).
The holiday season is a great time to reconnect with the a partner or go solo for some spicy, sexy personal celebrations. Not only is getting frisky by the Christmas tree always a good idea after the kids are in bed (those tree lights set a perfect mood) but surprising a partner with a sexy gift can be really fun for ringing in the New Year and beyond! We've rounded up 20 sexy gifts to help spice up the holiday season, including a few that can actually be opened around other family members. The rest of the list, though, is probably best opened (and promptly enjoyed!) in private with a partner who is sure to be delighted by some fun new toys or other sexy items!
Freya Razor & Vibe Vee Starter Kit
Shower time just got a whole lot more interesting with this combo razor and waterproof vibrator! Perfect for a quick shave or a quickie, this is also discreet enough to be the perfect stocking stuffer, even if there are kiddos around.
'A Merry Little Meet Cute: A Novel' by Julie Murphy & Sierra Simone
$21.99
from
The Ripped Bodice
A great romance novel can be a fun way to fire up our sexy times imagination and A Merry Little Meet Cute: A Novel is perfect for a spicy holiday gift. The cover is sweet and looks like a Hallmark movie so it's safe to open in front of family, but the story is very sex positive and more explicit than readers might expect. It's a perfect bedtime read when going right to sleep isn't on the agenda!
Rosebud Woman Ritual Travel Kit
$23.8
from
Rosebud Woman
There is nothing quite like hotel sex. We are big fans of going away for a few nights to reconnect with our partners and this travel kit has everything we need to make that fun! We'd pair this kit, which includes clean-up wipes and cream to help soothe intimate skin, with a gift card for a hotel night for an amazing holiday gift!
Lelo X Diesel Tor 2
This vibrating couples ring is a fun way to add some new sensations for both partners! This waterproof ring from Lelo has six different speed settings to experiment with and is rechargable so we never have to worry about running out of batteries at a crucial moment!
Savage X Fenty Velvet Vixen Slip
$64.95
from
Savage X Fenty
There is just something about velvet that feel oh-so-right for the holiday season, which is one of the things we love about this deep pink slip from Savage X Fenty. We also appreciate that Rhianna's always about that size inclusive life, with this sexy number available in sizes XS-4X.
Cake Spice It Up Kit
This kit, which has colorful minimalist packing that we like, is perfect for couples that want to turn things up a notch! This includes some Tush Cush lube for starting to explore some booty play as well as clean up wipes and a fun lube.
Dotted Condoms
Playing it safe can be sexy when some fun textured condoms are added to a special someone's stocking! These dotted condoms (which have a medium sized fit) plus some good lube can add some extra sensation to the mix, which makes it more fun for everyone!
Vesper Vibrator Necklace
Is this a stylish statement necklace? Yes! Is it also a sleek external vibrator? Why, yes, yes it is! This is safe to open with the kids around and can feel kind of fun and naughty to wear out in public on date night. Available in three colors that go with any outfit ā¦ or no outfit, just saying!
Dipsea Subscription
Dipsea is a subscription service offering sexy short stories and other audio selections that couples can listen to together to set the mood or inspire a new fantasy. It can also be the perfect spicy replacement for listening to yet another podcast or for solo play!
Womanizer Premium 2
$199
from
Smitten Kitten
Couples that already have a toy or two in the nightstand might enjoy adding the Womanizer Premium 2 to the mix! This quiet and sleek toy uses air pressure, not vibrations, to provide clitoral stimulation. With a wide range of settings, figuring out which one is the most toe curling is part of the fun!
Polaroid Go Camera
Like the idea of doing a hot and sexy photo shoot but worried about the pictures living on the same phone that kids steal to play Roblox? Go old school and use a Polaroid for instant printed pictures! Save the best ones in a private location and toss the rest with no worries about leaving a digital footprint!
Black Label Wedge (Plus Size)
Mixing it up by exploring some new positions can keep things feeling spicy and sex pillows are a great way to make some positions more accessible, especially for those of us who might not be as flexible as we used to be! The Wedge also features an option to add on a cuff for those who want to play with some light bondage, too.
Astroglide Quiver Personal Lubricant
Good lube is a sexual health and pleasure must have. We like the Astroglide Quiver for being safe to use with toys and condoms and for having a secret something extra that adds some tingles to the slippery sensation. A little goes a long way, but for sure increases the fun!
A Sex Journal for Couples
$26
from
Uncommon Goods
What could be sexier than good communication? This shared journal gives couples a chance to share their thoughts, preferences, and fantasies with each other as they respond to journal prompts. This might be a helpful tool for folks who aren't totally comfortable verbalizing their desires yet.
Southern Butter Massage & Body Oil
$29.99
from
Smitten Kitten
Few things are as quickly effective for helping set a sexy times mood as getting a full body massage! This massage oil from Southern Butter is available in several scents, including a relaxing rose and lavender blend. It has organic ingredients, too!
Flintts Variety Pack
OK, how do we put this delicately? There are some sexy times moments where some extra saliva can be a real turn-on for the subject of certain oral attention. Put it more blunty: partners who have a penis will be happy to see mouthwatering mints on the nightstand!
Hitachi Magic Wand Original
The Hitachi Magic Wand isn't the coolest looking vibrator on the planet or the most high tech, but it has been getting the job done for over 30 years now and it is a classic for a reason! This is a good intro vibe for people just starting to explore toys or a reliable choice for anyone who doesn't want to mess with batteries or USB cords!
Silk Sash Bondage Starter Kit
Couples who are interested in exploring some bondage, but who may be put off by all that leather and metal that a lot of BDSM gear comes in, might enjoy these silk sashes that can be used as a blindfold or to tie up a happily consenting partner! With three sashes there are plenty of options to play!
A Month of Sex
$12.95
from
Adam & Eve
Why not ring in the new year by having a month of sexy adventures! This book features 30 doors to open (one per day, like a hot Advent calendar) with specific instructions for how to get it on! This adds spice while taking out the pressure to come up with new ideas.
The Night In Bundle
With massage oil, aloe lube, and two fun toys to experiment with, this Night In kit is sure to keep any couple busy for more than one round of fun! This would be a great option for a hotel date or sending the kids to Grandma's house for some real alone time.
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