Valentine's Day is not just about romantic love. It can be a day to show extra love to friends (Galentine's, anyone?) as well as kids and other loved ones. But one person moms usually forget to show love to is themselves. It's been a tough year, between homeschooling and the overall anxiety, we've all been through so much on top of what life usually throws at parents.
We fully support mamas using Valentine's Day as a day to self-indulge. Whether moms out there are single, married, or doing her thing, we found some Valentine's Day self-care style gifts she should treat herself to. Every mom is different, so we included everything from desserts to clothes to skin care and even sexy lingerie. Don't wait for someone else to make the buy. Go for it, mama, in the name of self-love, amen. And if all else fails, there will always be chocolate.
Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk Lipstick
$34
from
Charlotte Tilbury
Charlotte Tilbury's Pillow Talk lipstick is one of the most popular shades (and brands) out there. It's a pinkish neutral that goes with just about any makeup look and skin tone. Even if it's just on Zoom for now, it's worth having.
Laneige Lip Sleeping Mask
Face masks are super popular, but lips need moisture, too. Laneige Lip Sleeping Masks are one of the most popular overnight masks to help whoever uses it wake up with soft, non-chapped, moisturized lips. If there's any time to treat oneself to a mask for lips, it's Valentine's Day.
New York Cheesecake (Or Any Other Treat)
Foodie moms may not be able to dine out as much as they want, but they can order in. Treat oneself to a favorite dessert or try something new and indulgent, like maybe this New York Cheesecake from New York's famous Little Pie Company.
A Bouqs Co. Subscription
Popular culture tells women that they need to receive flowers from the men in their lives, but why wait? And why depend on anyone for flowers at all? Mamas should treat themselves to their own flowers with a one-time order or subscription to The Bouqs Co. Choose the kind of flowers or bouquet and they'll be delivered straight to mama.
Boxycharm Makeup Box
We love subscriptions, so this round-up will include a few of our favorites, including the Boxycharm makeup box. It comes with quality makeup and skin care items for an affordable monthly price. It's like a gift every month for a year.
Le Mini Macaron Gel Manicure Kit Rose Crème
The health crisis has made it harder to get nails done in a salon, so more people are doing nails themselves. Make it easier with an at-home gel manicure kit. The Le Mini Macaron kit makes it super easy and it's very cute, too, in rose pink.
Heart Charm Bangle
$59
from
Alex and Ani
All mamas deserve bling if they want it. Good thing there's an Alex and Ani charm for any kind of taste and style. We love these Valentine's Day themed bangles. One is a charm of a heart and the other is a pink accent bracelet.
La Mer Moisturizer Mini
La Mer is like the designer sports car of skin care. Celebrities use the line and it's said to make skin look and feel amazing. Treating oneself would definitely mean getting a mini tub of La Mer moisturizer. Just make it stretch until next V-Day.
Silk Pillowcase
$59
from
Brooklinen
Silk pillowcases are said to help prevent wrinkles and stop hair breakage. Mama can feel she's sleeping like a queen every night with this simple upgrade. Brooklinen has different color silk pillowcases for less than $60.
Ugg Neumel Boots
People have opinions on Ugg boots, well, at least how they look. But for those who love the brand, we recommend these Neumel boots. They're every bit as comfortable as the original Ugg boots, but with a different look.
Buffy Hypoallergenic Cloud Comforter
Back to talking about bedding. Mamas know better than anyone how precious sleep is. They should treat themselves to things like silk pillowcases and this cloud comforter to make it as comfy as humanly possible. They deserve it. Do oneself a solid and transform the bed into a cloud.
L'Occitane Shea Butter Hand Cream
$29
from
L'Occitane
Winter is dry and hard on the skin, especially the hands. And especially when hands are subjected to constant washing and sanitizer use. This highly praised L'Occitane hand cream will leave skin feeling moisturized and soft. It's a cult classic and a luxury moms deserve.
Sexy Lingerie
$9
from
YourParade
Sexy lingerie doesn't have to be for a partner. It can just be something for women to put on and feel sexy. Plus, does anyone ever need a reason to buy a new pair of underwear? Your Parade has a bunch of different stlyes that are made to be extremely comfortable.
Diptyque Roses Candle
Diptyque candles are all the rage. They not only smell nice, but they become part of the home's decor because of their beautiful design. This Roses candle is a perfect treat to buy for oneself for Valentine's Day.
Coco Chanel Perfume
This author thinks everyone should aim to have at least one favorite or fancy perfume. There's just something about Chanel perfume that fits the feel of Valentine's Day. Why wait for someone else to treat? Mamas, go for the Chanel.
Unwind Jogger Pajamas
The stay-at-home life has made wearing comfy clothes really cool, partly because of trends and also because it just feels better to wear loungewear when spending so much time around the house. Get a good pair of jogger PJs, and feel free to wear them all day long — no judgment here.
Coravin Wine Preservation System
Lots of mamas love their wine, and we can't blame them. For the day of love, we think they should indulge in the drink they love, but instead of opening a bottle and having to finish that bottle within a few days, this tool allows the ability to drink just one glass from a wine bottle at a time.
Daily Look Box
$60
from
Daily Look
While many people aren't going out much these days and are working from home, some just may want to feel like their old selves, or they still want fresh outfits for when they do safely venture out into the world. For that, there is the Daily Look Box, which allows subscribers to pick clothes they want to try on and send back what doesn't work.
Call Number Monthly Black Literature Subscription Box
$39
from
Call Number
Calling all bookworms! While having a book subscription may already be something gifted or bought for oneself, we recommend trying out Call Number: a monthly subscription box that focuses on Black literature. A great way to give to oneself is to give back, and give attention, to other communities and their talents.
Womanizer Duo Stimulator
No, this is not a mistake. Mamas deserve to feel good not just on Valentine's Day, but every day of the year. And masks and wine are great, but sometimes, she just needs good old-fashioned pleasure. Babeland is a woman-first sex toy shop and it sells this fan favorite dual action vibrator.
Love is Sweet Chocolate Box
$32
from
Uncommon Goods
Everyone deserves some delicious chocolates on Valentine's Day, and these sweet pink treats are the perfect gift for moms. All of these chocolates — which come in strawberry and caramel flavor combinations — are handpainted, so not only are they delicious, they're beautiful, too!
Relaxing Spa Candle
Honestly, what every mom wants for Valentine's Day is just a little relaxation. Moms deserve a few moments of peace and quiet, and this lavender, jasmine, and chamomile candle can encourage a sense of calmness in the home.
Meadow and Bark The Detox Mask and Bamboo Bowl Set
$65
from
Meadow and Bark
Is there anything better than an at-home spa day? For anyone looking for a nice way to pamper themselves, this mask is the perfect way to bring the spa experience home. The mask will brighten, purify, soften, and hydrate skin!
*Psst: if you choose to purchase an item from this post, Cafemom may receive a small cut. Each item and price is up to date at the time of publication; however, an item may be sold out or the price may be different at a later date.
