Adoption stories run the gamut when it comes to different families. Some of them start with rotted, painfully tangled roots, while others grow and flourish easily. But the truth is, unless you've gone through is, there can be alot of misconceptions about the process overall.
We debunked some common myths to help set the record straight on adopting.
There Are No Babies
It Takes Years
Sure, some adoptions can take years. But many happen in a matter of months, from the first filing of paperwork to the day a child is brought home.
It's Expensive
Adoptions also don't cost hundreds of thousands of dollars, which is a huge myth about the process. A foster adoption can cost as little as $0 after grants or reimbursements. Non-foster adoption processes might be more in line with the cost of a modestly priced car.
You Must Be Perfect
You don't have to fit a certain mold to pursue family through adoption. For example, disabled parents-to-be can adopt.
You Have to Be Young
Older parents, all the way up to 60, can also start or broaden their families through adoption.
You Can't Be Gay
Gay couples in any state can petition for joint adoption, though some may have to prove they are in a legally recognized relationship. Some states explicitly allow same-sex couples to petition for adoption.
You Have to Be Married
You don't have to be married or in a legally recognized relationship of any kind to create your family through adoption. However, some adoption agencies may require a minimum number of years married for couples wishing to adopt. Or they might want to know why a couple looking to adopt together haven't married.
