How To Celebrate Your First Valentine’s Day After Having a Baby

A lot of things change when we become parents, and that includes the way we celebrate holidays. But though some of us might think that a romantic Valentine’s Day is long gone, that’s not necessarily the truth. It’s definitely still possible to have a great day (or night) with the one you love — whether or not you’re able to get a babysitter. All hope isn’t lost!

Yes, Valentine’s Day will certainly be different — partially because you have a new baby (duh) and partially because staying home more often than not will likely still be a thing in February for all of us. If you’re determined, you can still have a fancy meal (with yummy Valentine’s desserts, at that!) and bask in all that love you have for the person who helped you bring your brand new little one into the world. Being a new parent is stressful, and a new mom deserves a romantic celebration.

How to celebrate Valentine's Day at home

Unique Valentine's Day gifts

Another important part of this holiday are the presents, and scoring a Valentine’s Day gift that your partner is sure to appreciate now that there’s a little one in your lives doesn’t have to break the bank. If a unique Valentine’s Day gift is what you’re looking for, feel free to check out sites like Etsy for something personalized — and there’s always Pinterest for Valentine’s DIY gifts, too. For example, making something like this cute little jar filled with reasons you love your partner is so personal and so sweet — and definitely something you can get done during naptime!

It would also be super fun to plan to exchange cards or letters about how your love for each other has grown or changed since having a baby, because the impact new parents are experiencing on their love life can sometimes be huge — even for the better. What’s a more appropriate time to talk about how much you love each other and what you hope to see from the future of your relationship than the most romantic day of the year, after all? And if all else fails, well, there’s always flower delivery for Valentine’s Day.

If you do plan on ordering a gift online, it’s better to do so as early as possible if you want to actually receive your valentine gift delivery by Valentine’s Day!

Whatever you choose to do, as long as you’re spending the day with the ones you love, that’s all that really matters. The first year as parents is always a challenge, but those romantic date nights are sure to return in time.