You might be thinking that it’s already July and you’ve yet to put into place a summer learning schedule for your kids. Perhaps you had a solid plan that phased out only a few weeks into the summer break. Others might be feeling guilty for not even thinking about the summer slump, and back to school is right around the corner. Whatever your vibe, I want you to let it go.
I know, the pandemic put a lot of fear into the hearts of parents
My own four kiddos, ranging from 13 to 5, spend their summer on a variety of activities — emphasis on variety
My college students were often plagued by never being taught basic home skills, like how to do their laundry, clean, or prepare food. They arrived at college and were expected to function on their own. Every day, my kids do a chore — and these responsibilities rotate. They also have music practice and read. Luckily for us, they enjoy reading. The rest of our time is spent swimming, seeing friends, and relaxing.
Don’t you dare be tempted into what other parents may or may not be doing with their kids and summer learning. Everyone’s personalities, resources, and priorities are different.
Plus, look back on your summers as a kid. If it was full of happy memories, what did you do? What kind of summer do you want to give your children? What do they need in this season of their lives? Whatever answers you arrive at is what’s best for you and your family. Whatever this is, it is fine.
Don’t let the date on the calendar get to you, and please don’t try to cram learning in during these latter weeks of summer break. Teach your children this important lesson — that choosing to rest, play, and connect should be prioritized. This will serve them far better in life than an algebra lesson.
