Getting Real About Pregnancy: You Don’t Have to Do it All

If you're pregnant, let us be the ones to drop a major truth bomb on you: The perfect pregnancy doesn't exist. Your life is about to change in a major way, and even now, it's already changed. And as much as you might want to prove that you can be pregnant and keep up with your life the way it was before baby, the sooner you let go of the idea of "doing it all," the better you'll feel.

Remember: You're growing a baby, and that's already a major accomplishment. Everything else you get done is icing on the cake.

If you're looking for how to relieve stress during pregnancy, read on.

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Signs of depression: When to get help

During your pregnancy, you may notice you're experiencing struggles with your mental health you've never faced before, or ones that are worse than you've faced in the past. It's important to know the signs of depression, which, according to the Mayo Clinic, include:

  • Feelings of sadness, hopelessness, or anger
  • Lack of energy
  • Insomnia or sleeping too much
  • Changes in eating habits
  • Loss of interest in things you once enjoyed
  • Trouble concentrating

If you notice any of these signs in yourself, it might be time to ask for help. Call your OB-GYN and make an appointment. They may be able to point you in the right direction, prescribe medication, and help you get back on your way to feeling your best.

This is also a great time to make use of your village. Your partner, friends, and family are here to support you, and reaching out will help you figure out how to relieve stress while pregnant.

"There’s no gold medal for being perfect. There are no extra points for doing it all on your own," mom Kristen Chase wrote for Mom.com. "The more the merrier—happy child, happy mom. And that’s really all that matters."