One of the beautiful things about life is the freedom to try all sorts of new things β both out in the world, and under the covers π
We've come up with a list of 19 sexperiences you should try before you hit 30, from some *light* bondage to trying a new sex toy.
Get ready to have the strongest "never-have-I-ever" game… ever.
1. Watch porn alone
Spice up "me time" with some visual stimulation. Not all porn sites are sketchy, and not all porn is degrading to women. Get online, and get off.
2. Watch porn together
Watching porn with a partner is one of the best ways to find out what they like (and maybe think about some fantasies you have that you've been too shy to talk about before). Some videos could also be good inspiration for moves of your own.
3. Try a new sex toy
Nothing like a new toy to get you in the mood β something that goes beyond the classic vibrator or dildo. Try a cock ring, a butt plug, or anything else that strikes your fancy.
4. Explore some *light* bondage
No need to go all "50 Shades of Grey" to get into the BDSM scene. Start with a set of velcro restraints (better than handcuffs!), and try getting into them as well as putting them on your partner.
5. Buy yourself some sexy lingerie
It doesn't have to be expensive, and it doesn't have to be for anyone but you, but a fancy bra and matching panties does wonders for a girl's self esteem; just saying.
6. Have a threesome
Whether you're into girls, guys, or both, there's a way you can get yourself a plus-one to your twosome. Not sure where to start? Try an app like 3nder (it's the Tinder for threesomes), or check out a sex club to find multiple partners.
7. Engage in anal play
Not into anal sex? That's OK β you may still enjoy exploring uncharted territory with a finger, a sex toy, or a partner.
8. Have a one-night stand
No-strings-attached sex is pretty exciting β if it's weird or awkward, you never have to see the person again. And if it's amazing, then you've just made yourself an awesome memory.
9. Get busy in the car
Road head is all well and good, but let's be real kiddos: It can be dangerous, especially if you get *too* into it (or if there's a lot of traffic). Find a secluded place if you can, jump in the back seat, and then jump each other's bones.
10. Record yourself in the act
You can selfie your solo sesh, or tape yourself getting down with a partner. Just make sure it's a partner you trust, and if you absolutely don't want any footage leaked to the world, then maybe just watch the video together and promptly delete it.
11. Try role playing
Doctor/patient? Teacher/student? Alien intruder/abductee? Whatever you're into, put on a little act and really get into it. You don't even need costumes β they'll just come off, anyway.
12. Shower off while you get off
Shower sex is awesome sex. Why? There's no clean-up at the end; the water does all the work for you.
13. Ice, ice, baby
You'd be amazed by what a little change in temperature can do to your body and your mood. Use an ice cube on your partner, or have them use one on you.
14. Introduce chocolate/strawberries/whipped cream/etc.
Same goes with food. Indulging in something tasty in the bedroom will give you an excuse to taste a lot of other things, too. Just make sure to keep foods with sugar in them away from β um, sensitive areas. Or buy edible products specifically intended for sex.
15. Make time for a quickie
Even if you only have 10 minutes (or, hell, even five), you and/or your partner can still have a little fun. If you're reallyΒ crunched for time, you don't even have to disrobe all the way. That's the beauty of wearing a skirt, amirite?
16. Sex in public
I'm not talking about in the middle of Times Square or anything, but there's nothing more thrilling than the possibility of getting caught having sex. Places you may want to try are a restaurant or bar bathroom, a coat closet, a secluded place in the park, or an empty(ish) movie theater. Just make sure you're discreet!
17. Get down in the great outdoors
Camping, shmamping. You don't have to spend the night in the woods to enjoy the wilderness. Bring your partner and a tent, and have at it. (Or nix the tent, if you prefer.)
18. Join the mile-high club
Ah, the mythical mile-high club. It doesn't have to be sex in the bathroom to count; if you have a blanket that provides enough coverage and a seat next to your partner, it still counts!
19. Take a "lunch break"
If you and your partner work near each other, take a "lunch break" to meet somewhere and get frisky. If you have access to a car, even better β race them and see who can make it home first.
