Becoming a parent for the first time is an all-consuming experience. For at least the first year, most of us are in a daze, just trying to survive the huge shift that has occurred in our lives, and things like holiday celebrations — especially for a minor holiday like Valentine's Day — and, well… romance, tend to become less of a priority for a little while.
Perhaps more than ever though, the months after becoming a parent for the first time are the months that we could use a bit of recognition, a little bit of extra love, and a sweet, thoughtful gift. So whether you're thinking about your own partner or a friend or family member this Valentine's Day, here are some great gifts for new parents on Valentine's Day, because sexy lingerie and jewelry the baby is going to pull off in two seconds flat just won't do.
Cook Dinner
Babysitting
Whether it's your spouse, your sister, your cousin, or your friend who's a new parent, the gift of a couple of hours of babysitting is priceless. The new parents can go on a date, or mom can go get a mani-pedi, or you know… take a nap. The possibilities are endless.
Breakfast in Bed
It's cliché, we know. But oh… the indulgence of it. Just don't try to make it a surprise because if you don't clue in Mom or Dad, they'll likely hop out of bed with the infant at the crack of dawn. Instead, let them know that you'll get the baby and breakfast and they should stay in bed. If it's for a breastfeeding mama, offer to bring the baby to her and take over once the baby is done nursing so she can enjoy her breakfast.
A Hot Bath
Whether you draw a bath for one or two, the gesture will be much appreciated. New parents sometimes forget to prioritize daily showers, let alone a luxurious bath. If the baby is napping or sleeping well, plan it for one of those times. If not, set up a nice hot bath and take over the baby duties, so they can enjoy in peace.
Baby Memorabilia
New parents are usually absolutely enthralled with anything that has to do with the baby. Even on Valentine's Day! So whether it's a framed piece of personalized artwork or a mug with the baby's hand or footprints on it, a gift from the baby is an adorable way to say, "We love you."
Subscription Box
Subscription boxes have been a thing for quite some time now, and they're not going anywhere anytime soon. Pick one that is tailored to the one you love and either start them off with the first month or pay for a few months in advance. Some are even great to enjoy together, without having to leave the house or find a sitter. There are international snack subscription boxes, cooking subscription boxes, self-care subscription boxes, and even date-night-at-home boxes.
Lunch Date
If you know your partner would really enjoy a special meal out, but getting a babysitter isn't an option, plan a lunch out. It won't mess up your morning routine or cause the baby to be out past bedtime, and you can still enjoy some excellent food together. Try to time it so the baby falls asleep in the car seat or just after naptime. Just keep in mind, if your partner is the type to feel embarrassed when the baby fusses in public or is easily flustered, this may not be the best option.
