Baby Showers for Grandmas Are a Thing & My Mom Totally Wants One

When my mom's friends first brought up the idea of hosting a party for her, she thought it was more of a joke. However, the more she thought about it, and the more they insisted, the more the small celebration started to make sense.

The idea was met with mixed reactions within our family, so she decided to stick to only traditional baby showers for now. Although some might think this idea takes attention away from the mom-to-be, that's simply not the intention of this new trend. My mom loves the idea of her friends' partaking in her joy, and there are a few reasons why it's actually a fabulous idea.

1) A grandma shower isn't replacing a mom-to-be's party — it's just another reason to celebrate. 

Grandmas who are into this idea aren't just trying to upstage or overshadow their pregnant daughters or daughters-in-law. This is an additional gathering of people who love that unborn child and want to take part in Grandma's joy before she bursts with anticipation. Life's too short not to celebrate, and just like a pregnant mom's friends want to honor this exciting moment in her life, so do the older generation of women who are about to welcome a new grandma into the club. Plus, nothing is more worthy of multiple celebrations than a new baby! 

2) She needs some new gear too.

My mom plans to be very hands-on and will be helping her grandbabies' working parents out with childcare. That means she wants a "nursery" of her own and some extra gear. Although grandparents who plan to help with childcare don't necessarily need to set up their own baby registries or purchase duplicates of everything, a grandparent shower can be a fun way for close friends to help excited grandmas and grandpas get the essentials ready for daycare or date-night duty.

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3) She's been looking forward to this moment longer than anyone else.

The only people who can truly comprehend the scope of a grandparent's pure joy are those who are grandparents themselves or who desperately want a grandchild of their own. My mom is finally getting to join her group of friends who understand the happiness of being a grandma, and these women are just as excited for my mom as they are for the moms-to-be, because they understand not only how much she wanted this baby, but also how amazing it is when these little ones are here.

4) Just like new moms, new grandmas are entering a new stage in life.

This means she can benefit from the advice and experience of pals who are already grandparents and have been through it all. These tips are different than those given to new moms (ahem, like how not to overstep boundaries and learn what your role is as a grandma). The grandmas club can offer a wealth of knowledge that's unique to these women, and there's nothing wrong with their wanting to celebrate each other's excitement while helping a new grandma prepare.