I had a discussion with a friend about how excited I was for my daughter to see the upcoming Little Mermaid movie.Ā
I told her I was so proud that my daughter might be able to see herself in Ariel, a beautiful Black princess.
My friend didnāt understand the big deal. She ādoesnāt see color.ā She thinks that it doesnāt matter what race or ethnicity characters are, because we are all the same.
I have learned a lot in the past few years. I have learned why it matters that our kids see diversity through their media.
I hope I explained it well and that she heard my heart -- I hope what I have learned might help change someone elseās heart as well.
Do you ever find yourself annoyed when you hear about āBlack Miss Americaā or āBlack superhero moviesā? Do you think, why does it have to be āBlackā? Isnāt that kind of racist?Ā
Can I be honest?Ā
I used to have similar thoughts.
You may think you ādonāt see color,ā or that race issues arenāt as big as people make them seem.
I say this as humbly as possible. You. Are. Wrong.Ā
Last year my kids watched American Idol. They discussed and voted for their their favorites. Without fail, my sweet innocent 6-year-old would choose āone of the brown menā as his favorite every time.
In his simple little mind, all he wants is to know that someone who looks like him can make it.
That they can win. His face lit up in a way I had never seen before when he saw Black Panther. It is important for him to see black men on TV, in movies, and in books.
Can you imagine having almost no people who look like you in your Bible stories, in the toy aisle, or in your storybooks?
When he sees someone who looks like him do big things, society whispers, āYou can do it too! You can be whatever you want!ā
When people of color donāt find adequate representation in popular culture, they pave their own way. They make a space where they can be seen and heard. It really is that simple, and it really is that important.
This post was written by Stephanie Hollifield and first appeared on Momstrosity. It was reprinted with permission.