I am a big fan of having a diverse teacher pool. The more kids can be exposed to a variety of teachers who come from a wide range of ethnic backgrounds or identify in some way outside of the binary, the better prepared they are to interact with those people one-on-one in a respectful manner. I think what it comes down to for most parents is how teachers are addressing or presenting these “alternative lifestyles” in front of their children. And I think we can all agree that if it turns sexual in a way that’s not relevant to education, kids don’t need exposure to that.
Parents in Baltimore, Maryland, are currently grappling with a tough situation as they learn local high school teacher James Roman Stilipec regularly posts kink-related content that feature large prosthetic breasts and a faux pregnancy belly.
The New York Post reports that Stilipec’s online alias is “Jay Aress” and they regularly post videos and photos of themself roleplaying as a woman by donning a large breast plate on top of his 36DDD breast implants and reportedly publicly fantasizes about being pregnant in videos in TikTok and Instagram. The outlet also reported that he pens BDSM and “fantasy slavery” fiction.
Reportedly the “organization” Gays Against Groomers pulled together a compilation of the ninth grade teacher’s various posts, labeling the educator as a “trans teacher” who “openly flaunts his pregnancy fetish online.”
🤰 “I’m having twins!”
— Gays Against Groomers (@againstgrmrs) November 21, 2025
Trans teacher openly flaunts his pregnancy fetish online when he’s not in the classroom.
If you didn’t think perverts would exploit gender-identity policies in schools to gain access to impressionable children, look no further.
It’s already happening. pic.twitter.com/La6H5iZYAm
The New York Post stated that neither the school they teach at, the PTA Council, nor the Baltimore school system officials, could be reached for comment, and neither can Stilipec. Most of their socials have since gone private.
It’s a murky area. Stilipec technically has not brought any of their sexual proclivities to the classroom but that doesn’t mean their employment is secure. While free speech is still protected, employers can technically cite your online habits as a viable reason to fire you.
In Maryland, two teachers were outed as OnlyFans content creators and while one of the teachers resigned another was suspended.
While I am a big believer of live and let live, I think it’s important to remember that our online lives and real lives are enmeshed. There is nothing wrong with this educator expressing themselves how they see fit in their personal life, but posting it online causes a true gray area. Considering the public access and nature of online content, I could see how it could be detrimental to students to see their teachers in this capacity.
