Mom Dying of Ovarian Cancer Has Message for Women Everywhere: ‘Do Not Dismiss Your Pain’

According to the American Cancer Society, roughly 21,410 women will be diagnosed with ovarian cancer by the end of this year. Of those 21,410 cases, 13,770 women are expected to die. The numbers are sobering; but they are nothing new to Dr. Nadia Chaudhri, who has known she is dying of the disease for some time. The 44-year-old mother and neuroscientist from Montreal, Quebec, was diagnosed with late-stage ovarian cancer in June 2020, and has been candidly sharing her journey with her social media followers ever since. Now that it's clear she is terminal, Chaudhri is using her platform to share crucial information with other women who, like her, may not know the signs.

Initially, Chaudhri believed she was suffering from a UTI

Even though Chaudhri's symptoms didn't perfectly align, she trusted her doctor

In addition to the antibiotics, she underwent an endovaginal ultrasound, which "showed free fluid in the abdomen and the possibility of a ruptured left ovarian cyst," she continued.

The doctor recommended a follow-up visit in three months, and she hoped that her symptoms would subside by then.

In some ways, they actually did

"Antibiotics plus a laxative seemed to treat my ailments," Chaudhri continued. "But then by mid-February all the symptoms returned."

Perplexed, her doctor prescribed a different course of antibiotics, even though many of the classic symptoms of a UTI were still absent.

"Things seemed to improve a bit," the mother went on. But by March 2020 — just at the onset of the pandemic — things took a turn.

"By now my abdomen was bloated and I was in moderate pain," she tweeted. "My bowel movements had changed too so I kept taking stool softeners. I couldn’t see my doctor because of the pandemic. I was incredibly tired but I chalked it up to the pandemic."

March came and went, but Chaudhri was still experiencing discomfort

In April, she went on a third round of antibiotics, since her doctor still suspected a urinary infection, and she found herself dismissing all her exhaustion as simply "pandemic fatigue."

The following month, she had another endovaginal ultrasound, and this time, there were more clues.

"This one showed that my ovaries were enlarged and had moved toward the middle of my abdomen," she tweeted. "There was a lot of ascites in my abdomen too. The radiologist suggested endometriosis."

Chaudhri wasn't totally convinced, though

Before she went down that path, she decided to show her scans to her uncle, who just so happens to be a gynecologist. Little did Chaudhri know that this decision would prove fateful.

"He said I should get a blood test to check CA 125, CA 19, and CEA. These are cancer markers," she tweeted. "He wanted to rule them out before pursuing endometriosis as an option."

When the results came back, her levels were off the charts.

"My CA 125 came back at 925," she recalled, adding that a "normal" level is 0-35.

She scheduled an appointment with a top gynecologist right away

In the days and weeks that followed, she underwent more tests, scans, and bloodwork, in hopes that a specialist would be able to tell her more.

Unfortunately, though, it wasn't the news she wanted to hear.

"She said 24 of 25 doctors in the tumour board said I had cancer," Chaudhri shared, adding that her doctor was still "holding out" for endometriosis.

Two weeks later, a laparotomy (abdominal surgery) would confirm her worst fears.

"They cut me open from sternum to pubic bone," tweeted Chaudhri. "Indeed, I had cancer."

On June 10, 2020 — roughly six months after her symptoms first appeared — Chaudhri underwent a four-hour surgery to remove the cancer. That was followed by grueling rounds of chemo — six cycles total, once every three weeks.

At first, her body's response looked good

Chaudhri's CA levels dropped, she was enrolled in a clinical trial of immunotherapy treatments, and she hoped for the best.

But in the weeks that followed, the treatments took their toll on her body. Her hemoglobin levels were down, and her CA 125 levels started to creep up.

It was, as Chaudhri put it bluntly, "Not a good sign."

"It crept up slowly," she explained. "But because this started happening within 6 months of the end of chemo it meant that my cancer had a label: platinum resistant. It had learned to evade the platinum-based chemo."