An Open Letter to My Ex-Husband on Father’s Day

When you dropped off the kids the other day and got out of the car to see the ducks, you and Jack were standing just alike, watching them, hands behind your back and head pointed down. There has never been a moment, even during the hard times when we decided to separate, that I regret making a family with you.

It wasn’t long after I met you that I knew I wanted you to be the father of my children — of our children

I realize how lucky we are to be able to continue to parent our children in a healthy way, together

I know you always have my back and we are a united force, even though we aren’t living in the same house. I know you don’t badmouth me in front of our kids, and I am confident you always have the best interest of our family in mind.

Yes, we might not be in love and partnered any longer, but it’s like you told me the night you moved out:

We will always be a family, it will just be different

I need you to know how much I appreciate you putting our children first. You are the GOAT of fathers and our children are happy, confident, and thriving because of it. We’ve tackled some heavy stuff together these past few years and while things aren’t perfect, they are pretty damn good.

Your dedication to your children shows in every way and you need to know your efforts don’t go unnoticed.

I am so happy we decided to have kids together. It will always be my greatest accomplishment, and I’m so lucky I have you to share them with.