Lotus Bowker reportedly had a developmental delay that made it difficult for him to discern potentially dangerous situations. He wasn’t a strong swimmer, so his family warned the 15-year-old not to go into any water even if others were swimming. But in late spring 2025, Lotus was with some friends near a river, and when they jumped in, so did he. Tragically, the teenager drowned. His parents now want to warn others about the dangers of peer pressure.
Lotus, who lived in the United Kingdom, entered the River Wyre near Garstang Cricket Club in the early afternoon of May 18, according to a Facebook news release from Lancashire Police. Lotus quickly began to struggle in the water. Good Samaritans called for help and performed CPR until first responders arrived. Sadly, he died in a hospital the following day.
During the recent inquest, coroner Emma Mather told Preston Coroner’s Court that Lotus’ developmental delay likely played a role in his death, the Lancashire Post reported. The teenager had difficulty assessing risks. Mather called the death a “terrible and tragic accident.” Lotus’ parents, Andromeda Bowker and David Bowker, shared in statements during the inquest that their son could “doggy paddle” but not swim well. In the past, the parents took him for lessons to improve his swimming abilities.
David Bowker shared a statement with police following his son’s death. He urged parents to discuss water safety with their children.
“Our son Lotus was such a lovely boy. He meant the world to me, my wife, daughter, and four sons. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. Those waters aren’t meant to be swam in, as stated there,” the grieving father shared. “I want any individuals and especially youngsters to think twice before visiting these dangerous locations, which can potentially be costly, cheap thrills, regardless of social pressures or feeling the need to be included.”
Loved ones created a GoFundMe account for the Bowker family. Maria Mercer shared a loving message about Lotus on the fundraiser.
“Lotus was more than just a teenager- he was a son, a brother, a friend and a shining light in the lives of everyone who knew him. His smile could lift a room, and his energy was infectious,” Mercer wrote. “He had dreams, laughter to share and a whole life ahead of him. That future was stolen in a moment that will never be forgotten.”
