Usually the stereotype of men (even from men themselves) is that they will sleep with just about anything that moves or breathes and fits their sexual persuasion. "Any woman can get laid any time she wants," my husband is fond of telling me even though, I always maintain, it's not entirely true.
In fact, I have heard stories from many men about turning women down. Whether it was because they were too drunk or too forward or they were just plain not that into her, it DOES happen and it happens more often than we like to give men credit for.
A hilarious "social experiment" video in which is a scantily clad, very attractive young woman walks up to random men and asks them for sex, yielded some surprising results. In fact, men are more discerning than it would seem. See below:
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Sure, there are the guys who were like: When and where? Now? Cool. But about 50 percent of the men turned her down. Now, part of that is because it was awkward and weird and who on Earth would believe she was for real. But it does seem like a significant portion of the men said no for real reasons.
Their girlfriends were right beside them or because, quite frankly, it's a weird and awkward question. Sure, it might be different if she was in a bar and she was flirting and there was some different context, but by and large, men are not the animals we make them out to be. Even men want to actually know a woman before rubbing intimate body parts together.
Look, casual sex is fine if you are into it and by all means, carry on and do whatever floats your boat sexually. But most of us want a connection with the people we sleep with on some level. If it's not one that lasts forever, then at least it is chemistry and some basic chase that leads to a one night stand.
This is just too… Weird. And I can totally understand why men turned her down.
Are you surprised by these men's reactions?
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