
Whether the mom you're buying for is a working one or a stay-at-home mama, we can promise you she is stressed. Reining in tiny humans is HARD work, and she does it, 24/7. Add the stress of crafting the perfect holiday on top of it, and by the time gifts are handed out, she is good and ready for a little relaxation. To reward the high-stressed mama in your life, we pulled together 14 gift ideas to get her back to a zen state — at least somewhat.
F2 Nap Shiatsu Foot Massager

Every mom deserves to take a load off her feet. And in the rare chance she actually gets to sit down, you can make it a luxury experience by letting her feet be treated to this four-speed massager.
F2 Nap Shiatsu Foot Massager ($130, Brookstone)
Stress Buster Desktop Punching Ball

Listen, on days when the washer breaks, the kids have a horrific virus, and she has a killer headache, she will appreciate having this as an outlet.
Stress Buster Desktop Punching Ball ($18, Amazon)
Chill Pill 3D iPhone Case

Hey, every mom needs a little reminder to breathe (and deserves a little laugh).
Chill Pill 3D iPhone Case ($22, Valfrye)
Engraved Office Nameplate

Every mom, working or not, deserves to have this little reminder.
Engraved Office Nameplate ($31, Amazon)
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Inspirational Bracelet

Moms are always on the go, so it's good to have them remember that life isn't always a race.
Inspirational Bracelet ($20, Etsy)
Himalayan Salt Lamp

Supposedly this little lamp can remove "negative ions" in the air while producing a calming and relaxing glow to get your favorite mom to her place of peace.
Himalayan Salt Lamp ($15, Amazon)
Arrow Necklace Diffuser

Aside from being super cute, you can load this necklace up with calming essential oils so Mom can take a deep breath and relax wherever she goes.
Arrow Necklace Diffuser ($23, Etsy)
Stress Reliever Wine Glass

When the kids see Mommy with this glass in her hand, they'll know to give her a few minutes.
Stress Reliever Wine Glass ($9, Etsy)
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Anxiety Stress Relief Fidget Cube

Who says toys are just for kids? Sometimes distracting the mind can bring you to a place of zen, and this little fidget cube has enough clicks and taps to help Mom clear her head in no time.
Anxiety Stress Relief Fidget Cube ($8, Amazon)
Magic Wand

LISTEN. UP. PARTNERS. While this one definitely shouldn't be given in front of the kids, it still is a great gift idea. Nothing encompasses stress relief and "me-time" quite like this gift. Plus, you could get some fun out of this one too!
Magic Wand ($60, Babeland)
Scalp Massager

This nifty little tool can put Mom in a trance. The gentle rubbing of the scalp can relieve tension and give Mom the five-minute break she desperately deserves.
Scalp Massager ($8, Amazon)
"Calm the F*ck Down: An Irreverent Adult Coloring Book"

Coloring is a proven stress reliever, but one that can make you laugh while you do it is pretty incredible.
Calm the F*ck Down: An Irreverent Adult Coloring Book ($4, Amazon)
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Spa-Mist Ultrasonic Oil and Fragrance Diffuser Silver - SpaRoom

If Mom can't stop for even a second, make her environment a peaceful one. Paired with calming essential oils, this diffuser can mist four hours of soothing aromas to help Mom keep her cool.
Spa-Mist Ultrasonic Oil and Fragrance Diffuser Silver – SpaRoom ($30, Target)
Dammit Doll Classic

Let Mom take her frustrations out on this squeezable doll.
Dammit Doll Classic ($14, Amazon)