​20 Unspoken Rules of Motherhood

Sadly, after we give birth, there isn't a rule book we're sent home with; something that tells us: "Do do this, but be sure not to do that." We pretty much just blindly figure it out as we go. Trial and error, as they say.

That said, there are a few unwritten rules of motherhood we all seem to innately follow. They aren't anything we were ever taught or told, they're just things that naturally have come to us after becoming mothers.

Here are 20 rules of motherhood.

Image via Chev Wilkinson/Corbis

Saying Goodbye

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Jennifer Woodard/Flickr

Never leave the house without saying goodbye … even if there are a few tears.

Going to Sleep

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Morgan/Flickr

Don’t ever go to sleep until the last child is safely in the house … no matter how old they are.

Kisses

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Caitlin Regan/Flickr

Give no less than 50 kisses a day to children who will still let you.

Important Words

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Steve Arnold/Flickr

Say "I love you" at LEAST once every day.

Yum

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Ruth Hartnup/Flickr

Ice cream is always an acceptable lunch on birthdays.

It's Okay to Give In

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Mindaugas Danys/Flickr

Some battles just aren't worth fighting.

Mom Vs. Friend

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Dave Hosford/Flickr

Sometimes, it’s more important to be your kid’s mom than her friend.

Sleeping Babes

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Dan DeLuca/Flickr

It’s okay to watch your baby sleeping … even if they’re not a baby.

Mama's Medicine

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Uncalno Tekno/Flickr

Sometimes wine IS the answer.

Consistency

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KidStock/Blend Images/Corbis

Consistency isn’t always easy, but it’s crucial.

Stock Up

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Donnie Ray Jones/Flickr

Never leave the house without a snack.

"Don't Make Me Repeat Myself ..."

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Mika/Corbis

You WILL have to repeat yourself.

Who Cares What They Say?

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Dan Harrelson/Flickr

It’s okay to hold your baby all day long.

Mama Knows Best

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Mattias/Flickr

Usually, your gut instinct IS right.

You're Only as Happy ...

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Lisa Wiltse/Corbis

You’re only as happy as your saddest kid.

Nap Time

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Lisa Rosario/Flickr

Nap time is never long enough.

Healthy Meals?

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Laura D'Alessandro/Flickr

In a pinch, pancakes are a perfectly-nutritional dinner.

Oh, the Mess!

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Shrie Bradford/Flickr

You can never have enough burp clothes in the beginning.

Alone Time

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LC Nottaasen/Flickr

A night out alone once in a while is crucial to sanity.

Photo Mania

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Corbis

There’s never enough storage on your phone.