The Sexual Bucket List: 50 Things To Do Sexually Before Dying

What sexual things should everyone experience before they die? That definitely depends on your personal preferences and current relationship status, but we’ve put together a long list of sexual must-dos for people to get to “work on” ASAP.

I got married at 25 and started dating my husband seriously at 23. Prior to that, I was in two very serious relationships (both of which ended in engagements) over several years and those three men sum up the grand total of my sexual experience. But what I lack in number of partners, I like to think I make up for in enthusiasm and can-do excitement.

I know I lucked out when I met Rob, so I would trade a few wild and crazy sexual experiences for the really good one of meeting my soul mate at 23 (actually, we met at 10) — but this idea of “sexual bucket lists” does intrigue me.

Ninety percent of these can be done in the context of a loving, safe marriage (like mine). The rest, alas, I will have to leave to the single people among us. But here is a list of 50 sexual must-dos people should consider trying during their lifetime.

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1. Kiss a girl

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2. Have anal

3. Have a threesome

4. Engage in group sex

5. Have phone sex

6. Masturbate

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7. Use a vibrator

8. Use a sex toy on someone else

9. Be tied up

10. Tie someone up

11. Have sex in a public space

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12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live; porn does not count)

13. Sex in a car

14. Sex at a drive-in

15. Mile-high club

16. Sex with a stranger

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17. One-night stand

18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion)

19. Sex on a boat

20. Sex in a body of water

21. Light spanking

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22. Read erotica

23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game

24. Sex in the shower

25. Sex standing up against a wall

26. Sex in a tent in the wilderness

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27. Sex with no kissing

28. Sex in the pitch black

29. Sex in the broad daylight

30. Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin

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31. Blindfolded

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32. Watch porn together

33. Watch porn alone

34. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms

35. Sex on the beach

36. Using ice sexually

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37. Sexual role play

38. Whipped cream

39. La Perla lingerie sex

40. Frederick’s of Hollywood lingerie sex

41. A quickie in a skirt

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42. Sex with someone much older

43. Sex with someone younger (legal!)

44. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner

45. A longie in the rain

46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around

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47. Feather ticklers

48. Sex while “altered” whether by alcohol or something else

49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone

50. Silent sex in a full house

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