My Daughter Can’t Have Sleepovers & Will Never Be Alone With a Man – Not Even Family

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Plenty of parents disagree with sleepovers for their children. Sadly, we can't always trust other adults to care for our children like we would, and keeping them home may be the best option. Some parents aren't even comfortable with family or close friends watching their kids.

Michael Meyden recently admitted to spiking smoothies at his 12-year-old daughter's sleepover last summer, solidifying many parents' worst fears.

TikTok mom Aubriana Durazo is a mother of a boy and a girl who shares lifestyle content on her page, @theorganicmami. Durazo posted a video about "controversial ways" she's raising her daughter, which caused quite a conversation.

First, there will be no sleepovers.

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The mom of two explains her take on sleepovers, doing so while she is putting on makeup. She says her daughter will never attend a sleepover, even at a family member's home. She adds that in addition to never sleeping away, her daughter will never be alone with a male.

"She will never be left alone with a male. I don't care if you're the grandparent, the uncle, or the cousin," she said.

This rule was tough for some people.

Although plenty of people don't love the idea of sleepovers, they might make a concession for a family member.

"Waayyy too strict like no sleepovers even with family members is a bit ridiculous," someone wrote.

Others worried it would affect her kids. "I know it's not my kids, but this will create major trust issues," another person commented.

Some people agreed.

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This person works with young people and claims to have seen bad things happen to kids at sleepovers.

"Im a youth worker and i 100 percent agree with the no sleepovers. So many of the kids i have worked with have [sexual assault] trauma ," the comment reads.

This person shared their experience, writing, "the sleepovers rule i completely understand. in elementary school all the sleepovers i went to so many bad things happened to me."

It appears the mom will allow sleepovers when her daughter is older.

Someone asked, "Is no sleepovers and no being alone with a boy also included when she's older? Like 16/17? Or just as a child?"

Durazo replied, "I'm talking about as a child probably 13 and younger."

Another person thinks that didn't seem much safer. "Being alone with a boy at 16 is even worser then younger what?" the person questioned.

One person had a solution.

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Even though some agreed that sleepovers with strangers probably aren't a great idea, one person thought the family could host sleepovers at their house.

"y'all the no sleepovers rule is safe, personally i would change it to only sleepovers at MY house then when you become a teen you can go to others," the comment reads.

In a follow-up video, the mom doubled down on her opinion of sleepovers and that the comment section won't sway her.