If you've ever felt like sex is a bit boring, you're not alone — especially for those of us who have been getting busy with the same partner for a long time. As much as we love (and get turned on by) the one that we're with, there's only so far our regular sex routine can take us — and when we add kids, along with limited time and energy for intimacy, into the mix, it can feel impossible to ever get creative in the bedroom again. But does that mean all hope is lost?
We have good news: No, you are not doomed to boring sex for the rest of your life. In fact, there are a lot of amazing sex positions out there that are easy to try out with exactly zero planning that you might even be overlooking. After all, the classics are classics for a reason; people love to hate on the basics, but it just goes to show that they don't have much of an imagination when things start to get steamy.
Looking for a little inspiration to make things more exciting between the sheets? Read on for the underrated sex positions you might be missing out on.
Get Your Spoon On
Sure, spooning is mostly something we think about when we're cuddling, but it can totally be a sex position, too. If you're looking for a totally intimate sexual experience, give this one a try. It can actually be super romantic, especially if it's not something you're used to.
Woman on Top
This might sound like an obvious position, but sometimes, we get so stuck in our regular sex routines that this one ends up falling by the wayside. If it's been a while since you've gotten on top, the time has come to give it a try once again. Being in control this way can definitely feel good (for more reasons than one).
Reverse Cowgirl
Another variation of being on top — though this one takes a little coordination (and possibly even a little bit of practice) to get it right. And once you and your partner figure this one out, the logistics are worth the reward, even though you won't be able to see the look on each other's faces when you do.
Standing Up
This one sounds so basic, but how long has it been since you've attempted to have sex standing up? Whether you're using a wall to help keep your balance or decide to go at it in the shower, standing up produces a bit of a different sensation, and holding onto your partner this way takes things to a brand new level of fun.
On the Edge
Want to mix things up without actually leaving your bed? Lay down on the edge of your bed with your partner standing on the floor right in front of you, and let them feel free to go to work exploring your body. Of course, this means that they might have a bit more control than you do, but that's part of the fun.
Sitting Up
Ready to venture away from the bed? It's time to put the rest of the furniture in the house to work — including the couch or a comfy chair. Have your partner sit down, and then sit on their lap, facing them. This can be a super intimate position as you look each other directly in the eyes.
On the Side
This is similar to spooning, but this time, you'll both lay on your sides facing each other to do the deed. Like the sitting position, it's a hell of a lot more intimate since you have the opportunity to look each other in the eye, and you'll get all that closeness you've been craving.
Missionary
Let's bring it back to basics with the traditional missionary position — don't knock it! This is one of the most common sex positions because of exactly how good it can be — and it offers plenty of room for adding your own twists (literally or figuratively) to getting busy with your partner.
Knees to Chest
Looking for something a little different while in that missionary position? You can get some seriously amazing results just by changing up what your legs are doing. Have your partner push your knees into your chest while penetrating you — that new angle changes everything, y'all.
Doggy Style
It's pretty crazy how swapping positions like this can change the way sex feels entirely, but that's one of the reasons why doggy style definitely doesn't get the credit it deserves. You might feel like you lose out on a little bit of the intimacy with your partner, which is valid, but the pleasure might just make up for it.
Doing It Like Teenagers
Sometimes, the best (and most underrated) sex position doesn't actually involve sex at all! Think back to what was fun in the beginning of your relationship, or even when you were younger. Stuff like making out and grinding on each other was pretty exciting back then, right? Spoiler alert: It's still fun now. Give it a try!
Face Down
Another position that means you won't be looking at each other — another position where that sacrifice is totally worth it. Lay face down on the bed (or whatever surface you happen to be using) while your partner gets on top of you as an alternative to more traditional missionary sex.
Seated Spoons
You might think of spooning as something you do when you lay down, but you can also take this position to the closest chair or couch! This is like having sex while sitting on each other's lap, but instead of facing each other, you'll be facing outward while your partner enters you from behind.
Kneel Down
Kneeling on the ground (or the bed) is yet another underrated option. Have your partner kneel, and then join them, with your legs straddling their body. This one might take some finagling to get it right, but it can be a lot of fun — especially if you're getting bored of all the regular positions.
Legs on Shoulders
This is a variation of the knees to chest position (and it can be a little easier on your legs!). Assume the missionary position, but instead of laying flat on the bed, put your legs up on your partner's shoulders to give them full access to you and a brand new sensation for you both.
The Wheelbarrow
This one's going to take a little bit of coordination (and some upper arm strength). Have your partner stand before grabbing your legs to wrap them around their body. It's just like those relay races we did when we were kids, except — a lot different. And a lot more naked.
Use Pillows
If you've never tried this easy trick before, you might be surprised at just how much a change in elevation can bring! Use a pillow or two to prop up your body (try under your hips first) in any position you choose. You might find that it's easier to orgasm this way if you've struggled before.
The Lotus
This position is another way to make use of your partner's lap. Have them sit down cross legged, and then settle down into their lap, face to face, as you wrap your legs around their back. If you enjoy having sex sitting down, this is an easy way to mix it up and keep things exciting (and a little challenging).
